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Time to think about seeing a counsellor, psychotherapist or coach?

I recently wrote an article for Morning Lazziness where I explored the idea of when we should think about seeing a counsellor, psychotherapist or coach.  I have written about this before but it is a question that is being asked more and more.  Many also do not understand the difference (if there is one!) between a counsellor, psychotherapist or coach.

We all have moments when life throws us a problem or difficulty that unsettles us.  For some, we are able to roll with it muddle our way through it.  But some of us need a helping hand.  This does not mean that we are mentally ill.  It simply means that life has thrown a curve ball and we were not quite ready for it.  We might need a bit of a helping hand to get back on track. We might be in need of a tweak, or some guidance just to get through a particular moment in our lives.

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Counselling can help you overcome the emotional effects of trauma

All therapists I know have had clients who have suffered a debilitating traumatic event.  Some of these clients have developed Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  For some of these clients, the trauma has been endured for years.  Those who have lived in an abusive household, for example, can develop what is called complex PTSD. Counselling that focuses on healing the emotional and psychological wounds of traumatic events can be very effective.  As a Human Givens therapist, I use a technique called The Rewind.  I recently wrote an article for Welldoing.org explaining the essence of the technique.  You can read it here.

Trauma can be debilitating and exhausting.  It can also have profoundly negative impacts on our personal lives.  Trauma can leave us unable to form meaningful relationships.  However, it does not have to be a life sentence.  The Rewind is simple, yet powerful. It can be highly effective after one session. It is also highly effective for those who have developed phobias.  A phobia is often related to a specific event.  The Rewind can deal with that event.

If you would like to learn more about healing the emotional and psychological wounds of traumatic events, click here to read the blog. You can read more about the technique here. It is a safe technique that can be very powerful.

Contact me if you feel this could be useful for you.

 

Feeling weak and vulnerable

Your therapist or counsellor understands you

As a counsellor and psychotherapist, I also experience life’s difficulties and troubles.  Like my clients, I have times when my emotions take over.  I have to stop and stand back and reflect.  An effective counsellor understands feeling weak and vulnerable.  We know what it means to make changes to our world in order to be able to function in a healthier way.  I know what it means to look after my own well-being.

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Are you stuck? Is your thinking style leading to anxiety, stress and depression?

Do you feel stuck?  Are you doubting yourself?  Why this is happening? The answer could be really simple:  you might be stuck in certain, limiting ways of perceiving yourself and the world around you.    Inflexible thinking is exhausting.  It causes stress and anxiety.  It results in black and white thinking where options are either very limited or simply not available. When we are stuck in in this mode of thinking, we are blocking ourselves from our real potential.  Inflexible thinking can lead to anxiety, stress and depression.

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Do I need a psychotherapist, counsellor or coach?

Do I need a psychotherapist, a counsellor or a coach?

My official title is Psychotherapist.  But I also call myself a counsellor and a coach.  And a question I hear regularly is: “Do I need a psychotherapist, a counsellor or a coach?” For some the idea of “psychotherapy” is frightening.  It suggests mental illness.  Or that there are mental health issues that need to be resolved and that it will be a lengthy, emotionally painful process.  In my opinion, it does not need to be either.  I see many clients who are living with depression or the impact of terrible traumas.  But the style of psychotherapy I use aims to resolve these as quickly and as with as little emotional pain as possible.

But there are many others who give me a ring and come along to see me who are living healthy and, mostly, fulfilling lives.  Why have they asked to see me?

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